Honesty is best policy..huh... People will call you Gandhi if you actually believe it.. but as if I care..
leave it.. so the point is..we humans have a tendency to follow certain lead.. or a reference frame to measure our steps.. and the frame is obviously not absolute.. so you cant ever have one final verdict..
But do you realize a fact...belief is most complying way out. Be honest to yourself… and honesty means with everyone. Do justice to yourself.. regardless of what others think about you. If you think that you should not tell a lie… then don't, whatever may be the consequences. If you think you are deceived… cry out loud. No matter what kind of shit will people think about you...Let’s take my example.. My "prolific" friends say "tere ko to kisi bhi random bande se load ho jaata hai". ok.. I accept.. I don’t find most peoples' behavior good enough...and I never act like that I like them... I express it. I simply tell I don't like them. No middle way out. I hate diplomats. I like fair and square people. You might argue that life is not fair ‘n’ square. It’s because there are folks out there with you kind of thinking. I can't do "injustice" to myself. And I feel bad for those who do.
Lets take one more example. People lie in their resume. I could not. Once I evinced the thought to a friend. I said "log kaise apne resume mein jhooth likh dete hain yaar.. mere se ek word nahin likha jaata..".. Ok, that’s about me. I can’t. He argued “what the hell have you to do about it"... I just casually answered "are kabhi kabhi aise mein hamara kat sakta hai... koi jhooth likh kar kahin ghush jaayega.. hum bahar khade munh taakte rah kaayenge".. His justification was" As long as you can defend something, you can write it in your resume"…with a life altering proposition “STRENGTHEN YOURSELF SO THAT NO ONE CAN SCREW YOU"..No one can screw me. I am just having an opinion about pathetic people. DO I NEED PEMISSION FOR THAT...
Next thing… Hypocrites.. Dude...at least have a thought and try to stand beside it. You are not expected to be the next Mahatma Gandhi… try to follow what you actually think.. I won't point out people.They know whom I am talking about. If you can’t abide by your own opinion.. DONT HAVE ONE.
Next thing. I am not asking you to be a saint. People commit crime… circumstances make them this way...but at least I can expect that you know exactly what you are doing. You are killing you time.. just goofing around... you should know that. If you think that you should not do something… and still you doing…and vice-versa... YOU ARE A LOOSER... that’s actually the definition of looser by me.. Big wins doesn’t make big winners... big efforts surely does... (I might sound a bit like Shiv Kheda... but again ..as if I care..)
So finally I will say "Honesty is the best policy".. I am sounding a bit idealistic... But again... I dont give a damn about what you think of me.
Last words.. Some people think a lot.. some speak a lot.. its upto you where you would like to stand.. both ways at least Don't Do Injustice to Yourself.
A lot can be written on the point, but I will conclude myself.
